There was a long stretch of my life where I tried fitting in boxes and molds I had no business being in. I applied for positions I didn’t really want, left good jobs too early, and followed opportunities just because they were there. I learned the hard way that not every open door is MY door, and not every opportunity is from God. I have experienced rejection more than most people ever will—some because of my own intensity, some because I walked into places I didn’t belong, and some because I tried to live other peoples dreams for them. I mistook momentum for direction and paid a heavy price for it.

What’s amazing now is that during those same years—without titles, official positions, or platforms—people kept reaching out. Former students, friends, and family asked for my wisdom, counsel, prayer, and perspective. Scripture was opened in living rooms, over Facetimes, Zoom, phone calls, anyway we could. Through simply reading, I saw marriages begin to heal, divorces averted, father-son/daughter relationships restored, and people gain clarity about who they were and where God was leading them.  At the time, even while helping others, I felt like the worlds biggest failure. 

Looking back, God was giving me experience long before I could recognize it.

Today, I can say this with Godfidence, this is the work I was made for and dreamed of. Alongside building and creating, I get to help others choose the right PATH, avoid unnecessary confusion, wasted time, and paths that look good but lead nowhere. I wouldn’t want you—or your teenager—to learn these lessons the hard way. If my wrong turns can help someone else move forward with clarity and confidence, then none of it was wasted. 

I Love and Trust God so much that at least for the forseeable future my services will never require a fee. I will rely on The Lord moving the hearts of those I serve.